Be a courageous woman who walks away from people that hurt her. A lot of people have a hard time letting go of people who cause them pain. They prefer to endure all the pain and suffering rather than walking away. Be that brave woman who walks away from people that bring them pain. That woman who knows her worth and is not ready to lose her integrity all in the name of endurance. We must be able to recognize such people and bid them farewell. It is quite unfortunate that some people come into our lives with an expiration date.
And again, must learn to get rid of toxic relationships, people who don’t add any value to our lives but rather cause us pain. We must learn to let them go. Be that strong lady that walks away from a man who doesn’t value her. Yes, you might be madly in love with this man. The question is does he love you back? Does he treat you like a queen? You can tell if a man loves you from his actions. If he keeps telling you that he loves you but you just can’t see it from the way he treats you, then bid him farewell.A person who doesn’t know your value will never treat you right. He will keep treating you like trash no matter how caring and submissive you are to him.
A lady confided in me about the ugly experience she had with her ex-husband. When I listened to her story I shed tears. This lady suffered from physical abuse. She was constantly abused by this man. She said being an orphan was the worse thing that ever happened to her. The only person she could look up to was her maternal aunt who instead made life a living hell for her. Her aunt refused to sponsor her education even though she was financially stable. She was forced into an early marriage at the age of 16 against her wish. This man was the devil incarnate. This man practically served her beatings as breakfast, lunch, and supper.
There was nothing she did that could please this man. He derived pleasure in physically abusing her. Even when she was pregnant the man continued beating her. He never gave her any financial assistance to take care of herself. She finally had a miscarriage due to the frequent beating she received form him. Being a strong woman, she did odd jobs and saved some money. She had made up her mind to leave her husband. “If I had remained with that man he would have killed me”, she said. Not knowing her destination, nor how she was going to cope she left to another city.
She hustled on the streets, did odd jobs to survive until God sent her an angel. She met this man who picked her from the streets and cleaned her up. He saw her through school and she became a successful lawyer. This man loves and adores her. He knows her worth. This story touched me. She was able to summon the courage and leave the people who were undeserving of her.
Do not allow anybody to treat you as a lesser human being. Never let people treat you poorly because of your ugly condition. Never allow any situation to make you feel defeated. Shedding tears will not solve the challenges you are facing. Just be strong and courageous. Just believe in your own strength and capabilities. Be conscious of your worth. Never settle for less. Be a courageous woman who walks away from people that hurt her.